Fikir agenda esok,nak masak apa,nak ajar anak apa dan lagi dan lagi,neverending to do list.Memang mak-mak camni kot. Teringat pulak ibu yang bekerja mesti lagi panjang list,bangun awal pagi,breakfast,siapkan anak,hantar nursery,berkejar ke tempat kerja dan nak harung jalan jem lagi. May Allah ease all the hardships.Fuh nampak senang je duduk rumah goyang kaki ye yang tak bekerja ni. Memang dulu itula apa yang pernah saya fikir.Tapi hidup bukan semudah tu ye. Senyum.
Sedikit perkongsian dari artikel "Every Mother's Dilemma
Jallon, a school principal and mother of two toddlers, says, "I think staying home would be frustrating for me. I think it just might drive me crazy."
Memang ada masa rasa nak gila macam ni sebabnya tak ada kawan nak ajak bersembang. Dan dengan dua anak kecil yang lincah boleh tahan,I know that feeling. Bayangkan seorang anak nak makan masa kita tengah tidurkan adik atau waktu tengah masak nak mintak dukung. Uhuk uhuk..Geremmm
Lisa, the stay-at-home mother of two children, says, "I feel like, because I do stay home, I'm making my children a priority. If you're working outside of the home, they can't be your top priority."
Sejujurnya bila dah bekerja your priority terbahagi dua kan. Kerja dan keluarga.
Christian went back to work after staying home with her children for a year and a half. "I did not get the kind of satisfaction that I wanted to so I went back to work," she says. "I can't imagine going back to being a stay-at-home mom."
Whitney stays home with her 3-year-old daughter. "I think that every family should explore either the husband or the wife staying at home," she says. "You can never recapture that opportunity and explore and grow with your child."
Barbara, the mother of three, says she's glad that she decided to be a working mother. "If you don't have something that is your own, then your kids become everything. And you need to make that separation about what you're doing for your kids and what you're doing for yourself."
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